1. Etsi ihmiset, joihin voit luottaa
-My personal guiding principle is that I try very hard to find people I can trust, and then try to get out of their way as much as possible. I don't mean totally unconditional trust; but on the other hand, once somebody maintains something, he really should be able to make all the normal daily decisions.
2. Ole itse luottamuksen arvoinen
-I, in turn, try to make myself as trustworthy as I can. And in this context, "trustworthy" is a lot about not surprising people. In other words, it's not some kind of fuzzy, feel-good Kumbaya trust where we all love each other; it's more about the fact that people know my opinions and where I stand on things. While they may not necessarily like or agree with them all, at least they can trust me to be reliable.
3. Ole rehellinen - joskus tuskallisen rehellinenkin
-Part of that, by the way, is not feeling shy about saying impolite things or showing some emotion. So I'd rather flame people for doing stupid things and call them stupid, rather than try to be too polite to the point where people didn't understand how strongly I felt about something.
There's the saying, "On the Internet, nobody can hear you being subtle." Okay, so the saying is really, "On the Internet, nobody knows you're a dog" or any number of other things, but my saying is the "hear you being subtle" one. That's because, to be blunt, subtlety or sarcasm simply doesn't get through, or it may not translate to other cultures.
4. Anna sananvuoro myös toisille
-Part of that, of course, is ending up having to sometimes say, "I was wrong." That can be hard. But I make it easier for me by often writing my flames something along the lines of: "You're a completely incompetent idiot, and I'm not going to apply this patch because it's obviously broken and is a total piece of sh*t. And here's why..." But then at the end I'll include:
"And hey, maybe I'm just being a d*ck, and you can prove me right, so please explain to me why you did that horrible thing. Please? Hmm?"
This gives people the ability to tell me I'm being a d*ckhead and I was wrong, and that all the reasons I called them idiots were actually bogus.
5. Suorasukaisuuden ja rehellisyyden yhdistelmä antaa parhaimman tuloksen (Linuxille)
-Anyway, the theory goes that it's better that people know how you feel than then to be surprised by it later when you simply refuse to take their code. Or—even worse—if you end up taking crap code because you feel it's too hard to call it crap and to tell them why you refuse.
-My personal guiding principle is that I try very hard to find people I can trust, and then try to get out of their way as much as possible. I don't mean totally unconditional trust; but on the other hand, once somebody maintains something, he really should be able to make all the normal daily decisions.
2. Ole itse luottamuksen arvoinen
-I, in turn, try to make myself as trustworthy as I can. And in this context, "trustworthy" is a lot about not surprising people. In other words, it's not some kind of fuzzy, feel-good Kumbaya trust where we all love each other; it's more about the fact that people know my opinions and where I stand on things. While they may not necessarily like or agree with them all, at least they can trust me to be reliable.
3. Ole rehellinen - joskus tuskallisen rehellinenkin
-Part of that, by the way, is not feeling shy about saying impolite things or showing some emotion. So I'd rather flame people for doing stupid things and call them stupid, rather than try to be too polite to the point where people didn't understand how strongly I felt about something.
There's the saying, "On the Internet, nobody can hear you being subtle." Okay, so the saying is really, "On the Internet, nobody knows you're a dog" or any number of other things, but my saying is the "hear you being subtle" one. That's because, to be blunt, subtlety or sarcasm simply doesn't get through, or it may not translate to other cultures.
4. Anna sananvuoro myös toisille
-Part of that, of course, is ending up having to sometimes say, "I was wrong." That can be hard. But I make it easier for me by often writing my flames something along the lines of: "You're a completely incompetent idiot, and I'm not going to apply this patch because it's obviously broken and is a total piece of sh*t. And here's why..." But then at the end I'll include:
"And hey, maybe I'm just being a d*ck, and you can prove me right, so please explain to me why you did that horrible thing. Please? Hmm?"
This gives people the ability to tell me I'm being a d*ckhead and I was wrong, and that all the reasons I called them idiots were actually bogus.
5. Suorasukaisuuden ja rehellisyyden yhdistelmä antaa parhaimman tuloksen (Linuxille)
-Anyway, the theory goes that it's better that people know how you feel than then to be surprised by it later when you simply refuse to take their code. Or—even worse—if you end up taking crap code because you feel it's too hard to call it crap and to tell them why you refuse.
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Vanhimmat
Varsinkin kohtaa 4, ovat linux uskovaiset törkeimmin loukanneet.
Anna sananvuoro myös toisille. Kunnioita toisten mielipiteitä, vaikka ne olisivat kuinka erilaisia kuin omasi. Älä ole mielestäsi aina oikeassa, vaan pyri dialogiin ja vuorovaikutukseen. Keskity keskustelussa itse asiaan, älä puutu henkilöön. Toisen henkilön tai hänen erilaisen mielipiteen pilkkaaminen on huonointa "mainosta" linuxille.
>...pyri dialogiin ja vuorovaikutukseen.
Siihenhän suurin osa pyrkii mutta jos vastapuoli ei kuuntele mitään vaan suoltaa valheita toisensa perään niin mitä voi tehdä? ;)