The Manipulated Man

"A man who changes his way of life, or rather his profession (for life and profession
are synonymous to him), is considered unreliable. If he does it more than once, he
becomes a social outcast and remains alone."

Pohtikaapa vaikka tätäkin kohtaa. Se ei ehkä heti avaudu, mutta voin kertoa, että sekä työnhaussa, että treffeillä, se että on vaihtanut suuntaa elämässään saa hyvin usein negatiivisen reaktion.

Kyseinen kirja on ehdottomasti äärimmäisen kärjistävä, mutta juuri sellainen sen pitääkin olla.

Hän tarjoaa miehille myös eräänlaisen selitysoppaan naisten salakielelle:

A DICTIONARY
Constant self-abasement in the presence of men has led women to develop a secret
language which other women understand but which is incomprehensible to men,
since they take it literally. It would, therefore, be a great advantage to men to hold the
key to this code and so create a sort of dictionary for themselves. Then, whenever
they heard a standard phrase, they could decipher its real meaning.
Here are a few examples, with a translation into male language. (next page)
CODED
A man must be able to protect me.
DECODED
A man must be able to spare me from all forms of discomfort. (What else could he
protect her from? Robbers? An atom bomb?)
CODED
I need a man to make me feel secure
DECODED
Above all, he must keep his money worries to himself.
CODED
I must be able to look up To a man
DECODED
To be a possible candidate as a husband, he must be more intelligent, responsible,
courageous, industrious and stronger than I am. Otherwise, what purpose would he
serve?CODED
Of course I would give up my career if my husband asked me.
DECODED
Once he is earning enough money, I am never going to work again.
CODED
The only thing I want in life is to make him happy
DECODED
I will do everything in my power to stop him from knowing how much I exploit him.
CODED
I will never bother him with trivial problems.
DECODED
I'll do anything rather than keep him away from his work.
CODED
I am there for him alone.
DECODED
No other man has to work for me.
CODED
In future I shall devote my life to my family.
DECODED
I'm not going to lift another finger for the rest of my life. It's his turn now.
CODED
I don't believe in Women's Liberation.
DECODED
I'm not such a fool. I'd rather let a man do the work for me.
CODED
After all, we are living in an age of equality.
DECODED
If he thinks he can order me about, just
because he earns money for me, he is sorely
mistaken.CODED
I'm so bad at doing things like that.
DECODED
That's a job he will have to do. What's he
there for, anyway?
CODED
He knows absolutely everything.
DECODED
He even serves the function of an
encyclopedia.
CODED
If a couple really love each
other, there is no need to get
married at once.
DECODED
He is being a bit obstinate, but I'll soon get
him around in bed.
CODED
I love him.
DECODED
He is an excellent workhorse.

"
When women are among themselves, discussing the desirable qualities of a specific
man, they will never declare that they want someone to look up to, someone who will
protect them. Such twaddle would he greeted with the laughter it deserves. They are
snore likely to say they want a man with such and such a job: jobs are synonymous
with income level, old-age pensions, widows' endowments, and the ability to pay high
life-insurance premiums. Or a woman might well say, `The man I'm going to marry
must he a little older than I, at least half a head taller, and more intelligent.' By which she means that it looks 'normal' for a somewhat older, stronger, more intelligent
human being to provide for a younger, weaker, more stupid Creature.
"

"
THE BUSINESS WORLD AS A HUNTING GROUND
There are many women who take their place in the working world of today.
Secretaries and shop assistants, factory workers and stewardesses - not to mention
those countless hearty, young women who populate the colleges and universities in
ever-increasing numbers. One might even get the impression that woman's nature
had undergone a radical change in the last twenty years. Today's young women
appear to be less unfair than their mothers. They seem to have decided - perhaps
out of pity for their victims - not to exploit men any more, but to become, in truth, their
partners.
The impression is deceptive. The only truly important act in any woman's life is the
selection of the right partner. In any other choice she can afford to make a mistake.
Consequently. she will look for a man where he works or studies and where she can
best observe and judge the necessary masculine qualities she values. Offices,
factories, colleges, and universities are, to her, nothing but gigantic marriage
markets.

...
"

Aloittaja on aivan oikeassa. Totuus on, että suomessa asuu maailman munattomimmat miehet (heti jenkkilän, brittien ja hurrien jälkeen) jotka luulevat vieläkin että nainen tarvitsee, saati ansaitsee miehen suojelua ja kunnioitusta.

Itsehän en kunnioita ämmiä tippaakaan, ja jos näen kuinka naista raiskataan ja pahoinpidellään, kävelen kylmästi ohi.

Kirjastosta löytyy Suomalainen versio tuosta kirjasta "Esther vilar-Hyvin opetettu mies, 1972".

"A man is a human being who works. By working, he supports himself, his wife, and
his wife's children. A woman, on the other hand, is a human being who does not work
- or at least only temporarily. Most of her life she supports neither herself nor her
children, let alone her husband."

Ei pidä paikkaansa.

Manipulated men kirja avasi silmäni enkä aio enää naisten kanssa koskaan olla parisuhteessa.Tunsin häpeää ja oksetusta kun luin kirjan,oisin halunnut kiskoa itseltäni hampaat irti,niin koin itseni huijatuksi naisten taholta.En ole enää kahteen vuoteen yrittänyt iskeä naisia mitenkään,enkä aio.Seksiä en harrasta heidän kanssaan enää ollenkaan,niin oksettavaa huijariporukkaa ne on etten voi enää kuvitella koskevani heihin,koskekoot muut tomppelimiehet mun puolesta heihin vaikka kuinka paljon.

Mgtow-liike tarjoaa mahdollisuuden vapautua feministisen yhteiskunnan määrittämästä mieskuvasta. Kristillinen mieskuva tarjoaa kuvan miehestä Jumalan kuvana. Tällöin miehuus määrittyy vallankäyttökyvyn ja rakkauskäsitteen avulla. Jumalan kuva mgotw-liikkeessä lienee yksi näkökulma?!