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Onko nämä arabit ihan pellejä? Heittääkö ne ihan tosissaan tämmöstä vai onko tämä provoa?

crusader kirjoitti:

Onko nämä arabit ihan pellejä? Heittääkö ne ihan tosissaan tämmöstä vai onko tämä provoa?

Ensiksi älä välitä asiasta tietämättömien kommenteista. Mielestäni avioliittonne jatkuu. Yksi hyvä tapa on selvittää erimielisyydet on neuvottelu. Kysy moskeijasta neuvoa. Toivon että saatte asiat selvitettyä.

wesam kirjoitti:

Ensiksi älä välitä asiasta tietämättömien kommenteista. Mielestäni avioliittonne jatkuu. Yksi hyvä tapa on selvittää erimielisyydet on neuvottelu. Kysy moskeijasta neuvoa. Toivon että saatte asiat selvitettyä.

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Sain asiaan selvennyksen Imaamilta ja hän sanoi, avioliitto on loppunnut...

epätitoinen kirjoitti:

Sain asiaan selvennyksen Imaamilta ja hän sanoi, avioliitto on loppunnut...

Jos luet Koraani ja näet että se on loppunut, mutta voitte yhdistää uudestaan.

Quran :

The Cow, 227. And if they have resolved on a divorce, then Allah is surely Hearing, Knowing.

The Cow,228. And the divorced women should keep themselves in waiting for three courses; and it is not lawful for them that they should conceal what Allah has created in their wombs, if they believe in Allah and the last day; and their husbands have a better right to take them back in the meanwhile if they wish for reconciliation; and they have rights similar to those against them in a just manner, and the men are a degree above them, and Allah is Mighty, Wise.

The Cow ,229. divorce may be (pronounced) twice, then keep (them) in good fellowship or let (them) go with kindness; and it is not lawful for you to take any part of what you have given them, unless both fear that they cannot keep within the limits of Allah; then if you fear that they cannot keep within the limits of Allah, there is no blame on them for what she gives up to become free thereby. These are the limits of Allah, so do not exceed them and whoever exceeds the limits of Allah these it is that are the unjust.

The Cow , 230.So if he divorces her she shall not be lawful to him afterwards until she marries another husband; then if he divorces her there is no blame on them both if they return to each other (by marriage), if they think that they can keep within the limits of Allah, and these are the limits of Allah which He makes clear for a people who know.

The Cow , 231. And when you divorce women and they reach their prescribed time, then either retain them in good fellowship or set them free with liberality, and do not retain them for injury, so that you exceed the limits, and whoever does this, he indeed is unjust to his own soul; and do not take Allah's communications for a mockery, and remember the favor of Allah upon you, and that which He has revealed to you of the Book and the Wisdom, admonishing you thereby; and be careful (of your duty to) Allah, and know that Allah is the Knower of all things.

The Cow, 232. And when you have divorced women and they have ended-- their term (of waiting), then do not prevent them from marrying their husbands when they agree among themselves in a lawful manner; with this is admonished he among you who believes in Allah and the last day, this is more profitable and purer for you; and Allah knows while you do not know.

The Cow, 236.There is no blame on you if you divorce women when you have not touched them or appointed for them a portion, and make provision for them, the wealthy according to his means and the straitened in circumstances according to his means, a provision according to usage; (this is) a duty on the doers of good (to others).

The Cow ,237. And if you divorce them before you have touched them and you have appointed for them a portion, then (pay to them) ha!f of what you have appointed, unless they relinquish or he should relinquish in whose hand is the marriage tie; and it is nearer to righteousness that you should relinquish; and do not neglect the giving of free gifts between you; surely Allah sees what you do.

The Cow ,241. And for the divorced women (too) provision (must be made) according to usage; (this is) a duty on those who guard (against evil).

The Allies, 49. O you who believe! when you marry the believing women, then divorce them before you touch them, you have in their case no term which you should reckon; so make some provision for them and send them forth a goodly sending forth.

The Pleading One , 2. If any men among you divorce their wives by Zihár (calling them mothers), they cannot be their mothers: None can be their mothers except those who gave them birth. And in fact they use words (both) iniquitous and false: but truly Allah is All-Pardoning, All-Forgiving.

The Divorce, 1. O Prophet! When ye do divorce women, divorce them at their prescribed periods, and count (accurately), their prescribed periods: and fear Allah your Lord: and turn them not out of their houses, nor shall they (themselves) leave, except in case they are guilty of some open lewdness, those are limits set by Allah: and any who transgresses the limits of Allah, does verily wrong his (own) soul: thou knowest not if perchance Allah will bring about thereafter some new situation.

The Prohibition, 5. It may be, if he divorced you (all), that Allah will give him in exchange consorts better than you,- who submit (their wills), who believe, who are devout, who turn to Allah in repentance, who worship (in humility), who fast,- previously married or virgins