Psykoterapeutti sanoo että kun lapsi joutuu vanhempiensa hylkäämiksi, tavalla tai toisella, niin silloin tällaisesta lapsesta voi tulla lasten hyväksikäyttäjä. Ei kykene normaaliin suhteeseen aikuisen kanssa, ja siksi kajotaan puolustuskyvyttömiin sairaudessa. Koska etsivät sitä viatonta lapsuuttaan jonka joutuivat hylkäämään selviytyäkseen ympäristöstä jossa viettivät lapsuuttaan:
"..If you make children obedient to adults, they might be obedient even to those that you really do not want them to be obedient to. You also vant to give them connection. Connect with your child with heart and soul. Figure out their likes an dislikes, and connect with them. Figure out their wants. Figure out their needs.
A child who feels disliked, or ignored, or outcast, is at SERIOUS risk to seek that connection with an adult who in fact has sexual intentions towards that child.
See pedophiles as for what they really are, a hurt person who is trying to reconnect, desperately, with the aspect of themselves that was a child, with an aspect they have lost, their own innocense.
An innocense in their childhood that they have lost, an inner child they had to dissasociate from, to survive in the environment they were raised in.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=pe1hVptKM80
"..If you make children obedient to adults, they might be obedient even to those that you really do not want them to be obedient to. You also vant to give them connection. Connect with your child with heart and soul. Figure out their likes an dislikes, and connect with them. Figure out their wants. Figure out their needs.
A child who feels disliked, or ignored, or outcast, is at SERIOUS risk to seek that connection with an adult who in fact has sexual intentions towards that child.
See pedophiles as for what they really are, a hurt person who is trying to reconnect, desperately, with the aspect of themselves that was a child, with an aspect they have lost, their own innocense.
An innocense in their childhood that they have lost, an inner child they had to dissasociate from, to survive in the environment they were raised in.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=pe1hVptKM80
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