Nörttimies oli saanut kauniin entisen mallinaisen(ei enää ilmeisesti nuoruuden kauneimmillaan koska ex-malli oli, mutta hyvin pantavuutensa säilyttänyt kuten ne nuorena häikäisevän kauniit voivat säilyttää vielä jopa yli 30 vuotiaana). Tarina myös todistaa, että nörttikin haluaa vain kauniita naisia, mikä on ok ja osoittaa selkärankaa, ettei tyydytä tasoisiinsa rumiluksiin.
Uskomattoman tuosta tekee kuitenkin se, että 99,99% tapauksista tason nostaminen tuon miehen tekemillä ja täälläkin lukemattomia kertaa ehdotetuilla konsteilla eli laihduttamalla, treenaamalla ja silmälaseista eroon hankkiutumalla sekä naisille juttelemaan menemällä em. temppuilun jälkeen taso ei nouse milliäkään.
"My short story:
In the past year I decided to break out of the nerd shell in a big way. I got eye surgery so I didn't need glasses anymore, I started working out and changed my diet to lose 60 lbs and started mingling in bars and going to partys to meet women. This past March at a friend's party I struck up a conversation with a beautiful brunette. She was the stuff of LEGEND to us nerds. She had a great body and beautiful face, a swimming instructor/kindergarten teacher and former facial model. She was also a closeted nerd. Lover of Jim Henson movies and all things video game related.
Fast forward a couple months and we had been dating each other regularly. The sex was good but the fun adventures we had been with hiking and sight seeing etc were even better. How could things been any better? A regular "Beauty and The Nerd". But at some point, she decided to start putting up walls and became more guarded. She put our budding relationship on hold and all looked bleak for me! I didn't know what had gone wrong or how to "fix" it.
I started to suffer from the dreaded Oneitis! This was made even WORSE by the fact that we remained in good contact after she put a stop to it.... and I even slept with her once more about a month after the "end" when she and I were alone and emotions got high.
Thankfully, I have a good group of female friends who were smart enough to smack me around verbally and physically to get out of Oneitis. They got me to start using an online dating site and go on a few dates here and there. The key thing these friends of mine kept telling me was to realize your OWN self worth. There are something like 300 million people in the world and over half of them are women. Once you realize that there IS going to be someone ELSE out there that will come to care about you and see you as attractive, you will be fine."
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Uskomattoman tuosta tekee kuitenkin se, että 99,99% tapauksista tason nostaminen tuon miehen tekemillä ja täälläkin lukemattomia kertaa ehdotetuilla konsteilla eli laihduttamalla, treenaamalla ja silmälaseista eroon hankkiutumalla sekä naisille juttelemaan menemällä em. temppuilun jälkeen taso ei nouse milliäkään.
"My short story:
In the past year I decided to break out of the nerd shell in a big way. I got eye surgery so I didn't need glasses anymore, I started working out and changed my diet to lose 60 lbs and started mingling in bars and going to partys to meet women. This past March at a friend's party I struck up a conversation with a beautiful brunette. She was the stuff of LEGEND to us nerds. She had a great body and beautiful face, a swimming instructor/kindergarten teacher and former facial model. She was also a closeted nerd. Lover of Jim Henson movies and all things video game related.
Fast forward a couple months and we had been dating each other regularly. The sex was good but the fun adventures we had been with hiking and sight seeing etc were even better. How could things been any better? A regular "Beauty and The Nerd". But at some point, she decided to start putting up walls and became more guarded. She put our budding relationship on hold and all looked bleak for me! I didn't know what had gone wrong or how to "fix" it.
I started to suffer from the dreaded Oneitis! This was made even WORSE by the fact that we remained in good contact after she put a stop to it.... and I even slept with her once more about a month after the "end" when she and I were alone and emotions got high.
Thankfully, I have a good group of female friends who were smart enough to smack me around verbally and physically to get out of Oneitis. They got me to start using an online dating site and go on a few dates here and there. The key thing these friends of mine kept telling me was to realize your OWN self worth. There are something like 300 million people in the world and over half of them are women. Once you realize that there IS going to be someone ELSE out there that will come to care about you and see you as attractive, you will be fine."
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Vanhimmat
"There are something like 300 million people in the world and over half of them are women."
Juuri tuon verran maailmassa l. Yhdysvalloissa aina on ihmisiä.
Joo oli kyllä hienoa tietoa! bryöööghhh
Mutta muuten kyllä asiallinen tarina!