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Last night I decided a good place to go enjoy myself and maybe meet someone new would be nice dance club. I'm 35 so I realize at some clubs I'd be consider old. So I choose a club with a mixed age group. I get there around 11pm find a small table and relaxed with a couple drinks and watch the people dance for about 30mins. I'm feeling ok and decide I'd liked to dance with someone. From my seat I look around for a lady who looked like she would dance. I see a group of three woman, walk up to them and asked the closest one if she would like to dance. She turns for a moment looks at me then turns away and says nothing. I'm wondering did she hear me? No matter. I go on and ask one of her friends. I get a slight glance and nothing, no yes or no. In the next hour or so I ask 4 additional woman to dance. I never got a dance . Not getting a dance didn't really bother me so much as the fact that only one had the courtesy to answer me no.

What the heck happened since my twenties when I used to go dancing, some nights I would ask 4 or 5 woman who may say no but never just gaff me off.


Is this now the norm?
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you need to know them first. can't go talk to strangers.
also you just go dance. no talking.
dance.
go to the fucking dance floor and act just like the other idiots there.
i recommend you go relatively sober for one time. see how others do it. there's some losers, who go around trying to talk to women. like you did. like i always do as i'd prefer to know her name before i fucked her. they usually get no company. there's men who are wasted, go to dance floor, dance, somehow pair up and get laid.
so, get drunk, dance, no need to know how to, as the women don't either and are actually afraid of good dancers, they want to be in control, drag you home, fuck you, they don't care for men who are superior to them, so if you are, act stupid, dance slightly worse than the woman you want to attract. finnish woman, loves a loser, hates a winner. fighting, being too drunk are desirable traits in a night club.

not that it's changed. thats how it was before, too. maybe you were too drunk to notice.
women think you pitiful if you go around talking to them. for them, it's okay to be horny and come talk to you, though. not for you, you're male. you act cool and uninterested, be rude.
use kazaa, www.kazaa.com and download slick rick treat her like a prostitute.
also you usually write in finnish.

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pappaiässä mennään lähiöpubiin tai tanssiravintolaan ja lauletaan karaokea ja tanssitaan humppaa.
en minä. kunpa pääsisi pois tästä kaupungista ja maasta.

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Didn't ask any boys to dance with you?

Why did you run after women at the dance floor? I thought you wanted to dance, not to have female company. Cause women are not stupid, they can also see, what you're looking for.

What nationality you are?

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  • I think im black, blacker than ur anus.:)

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pz kirjoitti:

Last night I decided a good place to go enjoy myself and maybe meet someone new would be nice dance club. I'm 35 so I realize at some clubs I'd be consider old. So I choose a club with a mixed age group. I get there around 11pm find a small table and relaxed with a couple drinks and watch the people dance for about 30mins. I'm feeling ok and decide I'd liked to dance with someone. From my seat I look around for a lady who looked like she would dance. I see a group of three woman, walk up to them and asked the closest one if she would like to dance. She turns for a moment looks at me then turns away and says nothing. I'm wondering did she hear me? No matter. I go on and ask one of her friends. I get a slight glance and nothing, no yes or no. In the next hour or so I ask 4 additional woman to dance. I never got a dance . Not getting a dance didn't really bother me so much as the fact that only one had the courtesy to answer me no.

What the heck happened since my twenties when I used to go dancing, some nights I would ask 4 or 5 woman who may say no but never just gaff me off.


Is this now the norm?

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