Hello, I just bought your book today and I have
to admit it was the best choice ever. Before I
bought your book I was the shy "nice" guy who
would always try to cling on girls and hardly ever
talk to any and was always wondering why I
couldn't get any phone #'s or dates. I have been
dateless for 19 years and I just finished reading
your book tonight.
Well I went out and tried some of the techniques
and I have to admit it worked like a charm. I saw
this girl (looked like a model) I went up to her
and said hi, (never done before) and she was like
hi and kept walking. Then I threw in this remark
"what did my good looks really scare you that
badly? (I am an average looking guy and I knew
this)" This stopped her in her tracks and she
actually came back and was like "What did you say
"I was like "Did my good looks really scare you
away" and she said "I guess that was it, do you
want to grab a table and talk a bit?"
Then we talked for around 20 minutes then I
looked at my watch and said look at the time I
have to get going. She said "already but we just
started". Then I said well how about you give me
your e-mail address and I can contact you when I
have some time. She told me she didn't have an e-
mail address so I asked for her phone number and
told her I would only call her about 3 times every
day. She laughed and gave it to me and I said will
I be able to get a hold of you on this number? She
said yes and even showed me her cell phone number.
It matched so I was like I will call you sometime
towards the end of the week and maybe we can meet
up and develop our "Friendship" a little more. I
walked away leaving her speechless.
>>>MY COMMENTS:
OK, first of all, you get a GOLD STAR for being
a MAN OF ACTION.
With this little story, you've shown me that
you UNDERSTAND what you're learning... and you
possess an important quality: Willingness to TRY
THINGS.
I thought that it would be interesting to talk
about the psychology of approaching and meeting
women.
Your email was a great introduction to this
topic, as it includes several subtle twists and
turns that make for interesting observation and
analysis.
Listen to me talking about "observation and
analysis"... I sound like some kind of freakin'
smart guy.
Whatever.
OBSERVATION AND ANALYSIS #1:
First you walked over and just said,
"Hi"...then, when she kept walking, you said
something that was both Cocky & Funny, and
PRICELESS.
You said, "What did my good looks really scare
you that badly?"
Now, the fact that you're an average-looking
guy REALLY makes something like this work.
With one comment you actually communicated more
than most guys communicate in HOURS.
You effectively said, "I'm not intimidated by
you, and, in fact, I'm so comfortable around
beautiful women, that I can make funny comments
like this one...".
Beautiful women walk around in the world
surrounded by BORING, needy, approval-seeking
guys. These guys are NOT appealing to women.
When someone shows up and actually demonstrates
some HUMOR and some PERSONALITY and some STRENGTH,
it really stands out.
to admit it was the best choice ever. Before I
bought your book I was the shy "nice" guy who
would always try to cling on girls and hardly ever
talk to any and was always wondering why I
couldn't get any phone #'s or dates. I have been
dateless for 19 years and I just finished reading
your book tonight.
Well I went out and tried some of the techniques
and I have to admit it worked like a charm. I saw
this girl (looked like a model) I went up to her
and said hi, (never done before) and she was like
hi and kept walking. Then I threw in this remark
"what did my good looks really scare you that
badly? (I am an average looking guy and I knew
this)" This stopped her in her tracks and she
actually came back and was like "What did you say
"I was like "Did my good looks really scare you
away" and she said "I guess that was it, do you
want to grab a table and talk a bit?"
Then we talked for around 20 minutes then I
looked at my watch and said look at the time I
have to get going. She said "already but we just
started". Then I said well how about you give me
your e-mail address and I can contact you when I
have some time. She told me she didn't have an e-
mail address so I asked for her phone number and
told her I would only call her about 3 times every
day. She laughed and gave it to me and I said will
I be able to get a hold of you on this number? She
said yes and even showed me her cell phone number.
It matched so I was like I will call you sometime
towards the end of the week and maybe we can meet
up and develop our "Friendship" a little more. I
walked away leaving her speechless.
>>>MY COMMENTS:
OK, first of all, you get a GOLD STAR for being
a MAN OF ACTION.
With this little story, you've shown me that
you UNDERSTAND what you're learning... and you
possess an important quality: Willingness to TRY
THINGS.
I thought that it would be interesting to talk
about the psychology of approaching and meeting
women.
Your email was a great introduction to this
topic, as it includes several subtle twists and
turns that make for interesting observation and
analysis.
Listen to me talking about "observation and
analysis"... I sound like some kind of freakin'
smart guy.
Whatever.
OBSERVATION AND ANALYSIS #1:
First you walked over and just said,
"Hi"...then, when she kept walking, you said
something that was both Cocky & Funny, and
PRICELESS.
You said, "What did my good looks really scare
you that badly?"
Now, the fact that you're an average-looking
guy REALLY makes something like this work.
With one comment you actually communicated more
than most guys communicate in HOURS.
You effectively said, "I'm not intimidated by
you, and, in fact, I'm so comfortable around
beautiful women, that I can make funny comments
like this one...".
Beautiful women walk around in the world
surrounded by BORING, needy, approval-seeking
guys. These guys are NOT appealing to women.
When someone shows up and actually demonstrates
some HUMOR and some PERSONALITY and some STRENGTH,
it really stands out.
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