kauniilla naisellakaan ei ole helppoa... :)
I have heard it so many times, that pretty girls are told: "You are beautifull but you know that allready". WHAT!???? I mean how ridiculous is that?! If everybody thought like that, then those "pretty girls" would never ever receive ANY compliments whatsoever! Only the "not so pretty" would receive a lot of compliments because everybody thinks that they have never received any compliments, therefore they "deserve" it more! Lol!
Besides, i would even claim, that sometimes, the pretty girls probably get more criticism than "not so pretty". Since they are in primary school they are criticised more by other girls eg. "how can you be so skinny etc"... But oh my god, if somebody went to an overweight person and told her "how can you be so FAT?"! ;)
Then, being pretty can be a hinderance in lots of other things as well.. such as getting jobs.. eg. nobody wants a pretty Au Pair, because the wives are scared that their husbands will fall for the Au Pair and being pretty can be a hinderance in being taken seriously in the business/corporate world too. Even if a pretty girl has two university degrees, speaks seven languages, she will still be considered just ”a pretty girl” in a job interview. And god forbid if the boss is a woman, there’s no really even point goig to the interview. If the boss is a man, she has got a very good chance of getting the job, but would have to be prepared to endure months of sleazy comments, ”business meals” in restaurants and ”business drinks” in endless night clubs, only to be sexually assaulted at the end by the boss.
If a girl is pretty, other girls will automatically decide to hate her, even before getting to know her. Usually other girls don't want to be friends with pretty girls because they are scared that a) she will get all the attention b) she will steal their boyfriends. Pretty girls have also difficulty finding boyfriends, because lots of men are intimidated by pretty girls, and are scared to go to talk to them. Therefore the pretty girl ends up always going home alone. :(
Last but not least, pretty girls are automatically categorised as "good girls" at school and everywhere they go.. therefore they have to work hard to get any street credibility. And even then, when a pretty girl is covered in tattoos, piercings, wearing black clothes, and is smoking a crack pipe, she is most likely just considered just "good pretty girl”.
If a pretty girl does the mistake of getting into any modelling, where they judge you like a piece of meat, compare 28 year olds to 18 year olds, where they are told by overweight, wrinkly etc fashion industry people "oh my god you are too fat, too skinny etc etc., oh my god you are this and that".. etc. That's a lot of criticism to take for any girl! And PS: these fashion industry people should take a good look at themselves in the mirror before critisising pretty girls! ;)
All in all, pretty girlss have got harder life than people think!
I have heard it so many times, that pretty girls are told: "You are beautifull but you know that allready". WHAT!???? I mean how ridiculous is that?! If everybody thought like that, then those "pretty girls" would never ever receive ANY compliments whatsoever! Only the "not so pretty" would receive a lot of compliments because everybody thinks that they have never received any compliments, therefore they "deserve" it more! Lol!
Besides, i would even claim, that sometimes, the pretty girls probably get more criticism than "not so pretty". Since they are in primary school they are criticised more by other girls eg. "how can you be so skinny etc"... But oh my god, if somebody went to an overweight person and told her "how can you be so FAT?"! ;)
Then, being pretty can be a hinderance in lots of other things as well.. such as getting jobs.. eg. nobody wants a pretty Au Pair, because the wives are scared that their husbands will fall for the Au Pair and being pretty can be a hinderance in being taken seriously in the business/corporate world too. Even if a pretty girl has two university degrees, speaks seven languages, she will still be considered just ”a pretty girl” in a job interview. And god forbid if the boss is a woman, there’s no really even point goig to the interview. If the boss is a man, she has got a very good chance of getting the job, but would have to be prepared to endure months of sleazy comments, ”business meals” in restaurants and ”business drinks” in endless night clubs, only to be sexually assaulted at the end by the boss.
If a girl is pretty, other girls will automatically decide to hate her, even before getting to know her. Usually other girls don't want to be friends with pretty girls because they are scared that a) she will get all the attention b) she will steal their boyfriends. Pretty girls have also difficulty finding boyfriends, because lots of men are intimidated by pretty girls, and are scared to go to talk to them. Therefore the pretty girl ends up always going home alone. :(
Last but not least, pretty girls are automatically categorised as "good girls" at school and everywhere they go.. therefore they have to work hard to get any street credibility. And even then, when a pretty girl is covered in tattoos, piercings, wearing black clothes, and is smoking a crack pipe, she is most likely just considered just "good pretty girl”.
If a pretty girl does the mistake of getting into any modelling, where they judge you like a piece of meat, compare 28 year olds to 18 year olds, where they are told by overweight, wrinkly etc fashion industry people "oh my god you are too fat, too skinny etc etc., oh my god you are this and that".. etc. That's a lot of criticism to take for any girl! And PS: these fashion industry people should take a good look at themselves in the mirror before critisising pretty girls! ;)
All in all, pretty girlss have got harder life than people think!
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Vanhimmat
No onpa tästäkin nyt ongelma saatu aikaan. Hohhoijakkaaaah!!!
Itse olen varmasti susiruma kun koen suuremmaksi ongelmaksi tällä hetkellä esimerkiksi kansainvälisen lapsishoppailun. Jota muuten harrastaa moni so called beautiful - ne jotka eivät halua ihanaan vartaloonsa raskauden merkkejä (pilaantuuhan siinä kroppa, kyllä vaan!). Mutta onhan se hurjan kamalaa jos liian kaunis on! Huihui, mitä se Luoja mietti kun lahjoitti meille verrokeiksi Britneyt, Jenniferit ja Parisit! Niin ja tuon aloittajankin! Jo nyt on!
Hey you. Get a life. Really.
mut ei ne naamassa näy.... hyvänen aika.... ei elämä kai voi pyöriä kaiken maailmassa tapahtuvan kamaluuden ympärillä? tai voi toki.... mut pelastakaa maailma muualla ku netissä.
Non valebam legere.
Such a sad story. Thank God I'm not a pretty girl. It must be so damn frustrating... :)
Näistä jokaisesta vastauksesta näkee, mitä vihamielisyyttä "kauneus" aiheuttaa muissa naisissa. ns. Tavallisen näköisillä on elämä helpompaa, uskokaa tai älkää!!
Lähinnähän tässä on huvittunut. Vihamielisyys on tästä kaukana. Huvittaa ja turhauttaakin että ihmiset narisevat ihan tolkuttoman turhista asioista.
Muuutta, elämä opettaa. Kun riittävästi elää ja kokee,huomaa että on muutakin kuin minä, minä ja minun pretty little face.
No jokainen elää omaa elämäänsä, ja toisen ihmisen ongelmia ei voi vähätellä, koska et tiedä, mitä hän on käynyt läpi. Jos haluat puhua jostain "tärkeämmistä" maailman epäkohdista, niin aloita uusi keskustelu. Taas on joku lyhyeksi kynitty punatukka feministi äänessä???? kuten aina Suomessa.
"Taas on joku lyhyeksi kynitty punatukka feministi äänessä???? kuten aina Suomessa."
Hehhheh. Kunpa vain tietäisit :D
Mutta alkuperäiseen "ongelmaan"... Kyllähän sekin kriisistä käy. Toki. Noin 13-vuotiaalla se on jopa hyväksyttävää. Vähän vanhemmilla sitä kutsutaan usein narsismiksi.
Sitä vain ihmettelen että mistä riivatusta vetäisit tuon feministikortin? Plumpsahtaako se esiin aina kun et keksi muutakaan? Valitan,en ole feministi. Enkä punatukkainen. En edes lyhyttukkainen.
Valitettavasti.
No siitä vain ajattelin, että yleensä semmoisilla on pakonomainen "ylemmyyden" esittäminen naisia kohtaan jotka ovat ihan reilusti naisellisia, ja kauniita ja jopa myöntävät sen. Toinen vaihtoehto on että olet katkera vanhapiika, kenen perään kukaan ei katso.
mutta ei tämä saitti silti mikään englanninkielen kotiaineiden julkaisupaikka ole.
Mutta itse asiassa on perää. Miehet ovat ottaneet oikeudekseen heitellä typeryyksiään kauniille naisille. Jos mies on lisäksi humalassa sille typeryydelle pitäisi vielä nauraa tai mies loukkaantuu ja saattaa heittäytyä väkivaltaiseksi.
Naiset eivät ole sen parempia. Mitä rumempia/paksumpia akka sen ilkeämpiä.
Ei siis ihme että kauniit ihmiset viettävät aikaa keskenään ja rumat saavat lillua liemissään omissa kotikaukaloissaan.
Lol!!
niin pyydän anteeksi kieltä, mutta en jaksanut alkaa kääntämään.
Ainakaan itse en ole rasisiti kauniita kohtaan. Kauniiden tyttökavereiden kanssa on aina hauskempaa esim. baarissa. Olen nähnyt kuitenkin ystävyyksien kaatuvan siihen, että toinen osapuolista on niin kateelinen toiselle,ja aina vertaamassa.,
Toisaalta olen myös ystävystynyt ns. mallin kanssa, mutta jolla oli niin heikko itsetunto, että hänen piti aina talloa muita jalkoihinsa. Että niinkin päin voi olla..