Hello everybody!
I am sorry to write here in English. I just completely don't understand this kind of situation. I met the man through Internet and we liked each other. At least, I guess so. We met already couple of times and agreed to meet again. But just for curiousity I went to see to website where he had his advertisement, if he still has the one and he does. And he checks his profile daily. I really don't understand what it might be and what to do about it. If he is not interested in me, why to keep agreeing on dates and why do not tell straightly about it, if he is interested why do not remove his profile from website then?
Basically, I am already getting more and more disappointed about this kind of dating services. Why people here just play with each other and why they are not looking for something real or if they find it, they again are playing some strange games? I've read many messages on this message board. Men are rejected, surprised by bitchy behavior of the women, wondering if there is something real waiting for them at all here in Internet...So why when there is really good, decent and real woman, they cannot treat her correspondingly and play some strange games?
I am sorry to write here in English. I just completely don't understand this kind of situation. I met the man through Internet and we liked each other. At least, I guess so. We met already couple of times and agreed to meet again. But just for curiousity I went to see to website where he had his advertisement, if he still has the one and he does. And he checks his profile daily. I really don't understand what it might be and what to do about it. If he is not interested in me, why to keep agreeing on dates and why do not tell straightly about it, if he is interested why do not remove his profile from website then?
Basically, I am already getting more and more disappointed about this kind of dating services. Why people here just play with each other and why they are not looking for something real or if they find it, they again are playing some strange games? I've read many messages on this message board. Men are rejected, surprised by bitchy behavior of the women, wondering if there is something real waiting for them at all here in Internet...So why when there is really good, decent and real woman, they cannot treat her correspondingly and play some strange games?
Vastaukset 10
Vanhimmat
Now You just have found out and understood that Internet dating is only a Game. This Game is for most people playing it only a way of spending time. Those, who really want to find someone through this game, they will sooner or later break their hearts.
I recommend real life !!
Well, I know many examples of good couples who found their half through Web. And what if there are not so many chances to meet somebody in real life?
People lie... but don't give up! If you want to know the truth, just be straight and ask what your date if looking for. You have probably met a person who is addicted to browsing the Internet. It's sad, but true in many cases. Most women I have met, they have all behaved similarly. Some people are jerks but you really shouldn't give up because of them. They are losers but you don't have to be like them! One day the fate will bring the real person into your life, so try to enjoy your life until then. You don't deserve that kind of treatment at all. Maybe you can learn something from http://www.internetdatingstories.com/
be more careful next time! :)
Every woman I've ever met was a bitch. I dont trust them, they're too unstable to begin with. All I want from a woman is that she has to be able to please me. That is all.
To please you? And then how can you please the woman? And you can't talk about all the women, not all are like that.
..have done the same. I am a man, was in relation with a women and kept up my profiles in the internet. Never intented to betray her or to leave her. Asked myself why to keep up the profiles:
1. For safety, if something goes wrong I have at least contacts on the general "chat"-level and dont fall into deep lonelyness immediately.
2. I did not want to stop an interesting conversation just with the phrase: sorry I found a baby, we have to stop writing.
Resumee:
it doesn't mean that your boy friend is actively looking for an alternative, or searching for a girl to betray you.
Recommendation: Ask him.
in what way to ask so that I don't look somehow like begging him or too much interested?
...depends on your relation. Personally I would quite openly tell him that you had noted his profile and ask, if you are not enough for him, or if he wants a secret lover additionally.
The James-Bond way to handle the situation is to ask a reliable girlfriend of yours to contact him anonymously through his profile and see how far he would be willing to go with her. If you are in suspicion that he might want to betray you. Just personally I would not do so, but go the direct honest and open way.
Good luck to you and happy easter!
at least for a while. If you start to live together, then it would be strange to keep the profile active.
He'll remove it when the other possibilities no longer interest him. You simply can't force it, if you try you just drive him away.
Relax and have confidence.