Wikipediasta:
"Psychologist James J. Messina recommends five steps to facing and resolving resentful feelings.
(1) Identify the source of the resentful feelings and what it is the person did to evoke these feelings,
(2) develop a new way of looking at past, present and future life, including how resentment has affected life and how letting go of resentment can improve the future,
(3) WRITE A LETTER to the source of the resentment, listing offenses and explaining the circumstances, then forgive and let go of the offenses (BUT DO NOT SEND THE LETTER),
(4) visualize a future without the negative impact of resentment, and
(5) if resentful feelings still linger, return to Step 1 and begin again."
Jotenkin tuntuu että tämäkin palsta ja osittain naisen logiikkakin toistaa tätä samaa kaavaa.
"Psychologist James J. Messina recommends five steps to facing and resolving resentful feelings.
(1) Identify the source of the resentful feelings and what it is the person did to evoke these feelings,
(2) develop a new way of looking at past, present and future life, including how resentment has affected life and how letting go of resentment can improve the future,
(3) WRITE A LETTER to the source of the resentment, listing offenses and explaining the circumstances, then forgive and let go of the offenses (BUT DO NOT SEND THE LETTER),
(4) visualize a future without the negative impact of resentment, and
(5) if resentful feelings still linger, return to Step 1 and begin again."
Jotenkin tuntuu että tämäkin palsta ja osittain naisen logiikkakin toistaa tätä samaa kaavaa.
Vastaukset 4
Vanhimmat
aina valittaa ja syyttää. Katso peiliin,
sä tarkoitat tuolla?
se tarkoittaa että nainen on aina uhri. Uhri ei voi ikinä olla syyllinen mihinkään.
Introspektio on varsin tuskallista, joten itse olen käyttänyt vain listan kohtia 2 ja 4 sekä huoria.
Naisvihani on laantunut huomattavasti.