Rules to Tell if He's Just Not That Into You!
1. He's not that into you if he doesn't make the first move.
2. He's not that into you if he doesn't answer your online ad.
3. He's not that into you if he doesn't call you or text you or e-mail you for a date.
4. He's not that into you if he doesn't ask you out by Wednesday for Saturday night.
5. He's not that into you if he only wants to see you during the week.
6. He's not that into you if he ends the date first.
7. He's not that into you if he asks you to split the check.
8. He's not that into you if he expects you to meet him half way or travel to him in a long-distance relationship.
9. He's not that into you if he cancels a date more than once.
10. He's not that into you if he doesn't ask you to be exclusive after sex and/or a couple of months.
11. He's not that into you if he hits on your girlfriend.
12. He's not that into you if he forgets your birthday.
13. He's not that into you if he doesn't give you a romantic gift for Valentine's Day.
14. He's not that into you if he skips a week.
15. He's not that into you if he doesn't want to meet your parents and friends.
16. He's not that into you if he doesn't want to spend New Year's eve with you.
17. He's not that into you if he doesn't take you to his office holiday party.
18. He's not that into you if he doesn't write "love" on cards or hold your hand at the movies.
19. He's not that into you if he breaks up with you.
20. He's not that into you if he talks about his ex.
21. He's not that into you if he doesn't want to have sex.
22. He's not that into you if he doesn't propose.
23. He's not that into you if he proposes but won't set a wedding date.
24. He's not that into you if he wants to vacation separately or spend a lot of time apart.
25. He's not that into you if he's married to someone else!
1. He's not that into you if he doesn't make the first move.
2. He's not that into you if he doesn't answer your online ad.
3. He's not that into you if he doesn't call you or text you or e-mail you for a date.
4. He's not that into you if he doesn't ask you out by Wednesday for Saturday night.
5. He's not that into you if he only wants to see you during the week.
6. He's not that into you if he ends the date first.
7. He's not that into you if he asks you to split the check.
8. He's not that into you if he expects you to meet him half way or travel to him in a long-distance relationship.
9. He's not that into you if he cancels a date more than once.
10. He's not that into you if he doesn't ask you to be exclusive after sex and/or a couple of months.
11. He's not that into you if he hits on your girlfriend.
12. He's not that into you if he forgets your birthday.
13. He's not that into you if he doesn't give you a romantic gift for Valentine's Day.
14. He's not that into you if he skips a week.
15. He's not that into you if he doesn't want to meet your parents and friends.
16. He's not that into you if he doesn't want to spend New Year's eve with you.
17. He's not that into you if he doesn't take you to his office holiday party.
18. He's not that into you if he doesn't write "love" on cards or hold your hand at the movies.
19. He's not that into you if he breaks up with you.
20. He's not that into you if he talks about his ex.
21. He's not that into you if he doesn't want to have sex.
22. He's not that into you if he doesn't propose.
23. He's not that into you if he proposes but won't set a wedding date.
24. He's not that into you if he wants to vacation separately or spend a lot of time apart.
25. He's not that into you if he's married to someone else!
Vastaukset 5
Vanhimmat
26. He won't be that into you if you're reading this kind of stupid shitty list to check whether he's into you or not
Amerikkalaisten deittailukulttuuriin väännettyä soopaa koko lista.
Suomalaisiin naisiin uppoaa varmasti. Kaikki mikä on kirjoitettu englanniksi on oltava totta!
Heh. Takuulla taas jonkun ikisinkkunaisen laatima lista. Valitettavasti vaan sinkkunaiset haluavat jostain syystä uskoa tällaisiin listoihin ja sitä kautta vaikeuttavat omien suhteidensa onnistumista. Miksi näitä pitäisi uskoa, kun näiden laatijat ovat itse yleensä ikisinkkuja jotka eivät ole itselleenkään miestä löytäneet?
Alkuosan kohdissa ei ollut edes haluttu tajuta sitä, että myös miehet ovat erilaisia. On vain haluttu tunkea mies tiettyyn tiukkaan rooliin, jossa miehen kuuluu sitä ja miehen kuuluu tätä. Jos teet yhdenkin asian väärin, niin nainen antaa pakit. Tuollainen nainen ei ainakaan minua kiinnostaisi.
Listan kruunaavat kaiken maailman itsestäänselvyydet, kuten "He's not that into you if he hits on your girlfriend."
Oikeasti hei: Kuka näihin uskoo ja vielä noudattaa näitä?
Tätä lukiessa tulee väkisin mieleen, että naisen kiinnostuksen on kummuttava pääasiassa miehen kiinnostuksesta häntä kohtaan ja miehen kiinnostuksen on kummuttava hänen itsensä sisältä. Silloin miehellä on ehkä aitoja tunteita mukana, mutta naisella ei ole. Leikitään ajatuksella, että miehellä on. Nainen kuvittelee, että miehen kiinnostus takaa hyvän parisuhteen, mutta hän ei huomaa rakkauden puuttuvan omalta puoleltaan, koska ei ole koskaan rakastanut ketään. Nainen tylsistyy tai jopa masentuu vuosien varrella, ehkä tuntee olevansa ansassa. Jos nämä oireet pysyvät lievinä, he viettävät ihan mukiinmenevän keskiverto suhteen. Ei olleenkaan hassumpi diili, koska monet eivät ole edes näin onnekkaita. Monia miehiä se taianomainen salamanisku, Kupidon nuoli, ei koskaan iske. Kyynel :'(